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Like Father Like Daughter- Part Deux

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yep, the message from the Cousin of my daughter’s is a mini book…LOL…MAN, HORMONAL is RIGHT!  Bless your heart, telling me what I should and shouldn’t do…well, I’ve never taken orders from someone younger than me, not even hormonal one’s. By the way, what do you mean when you write, “Accept you…” Accept me what? What am I supposed to accept? I’m confused. You know, it’s funny you say that if anyone had a reason to contact your family (aka sending friend requests to your family) if should be my daughter as she would have a reason to, not me. Kind of like YOU now, right? I mean, if anyone had a reason to contact me, it would be your Uncle, as he would have a reason to, our daughter, not YOU…see how that works? You’re TRYING to jam me for something you yourself are doing. YOU have no reason to message me. My “beef” (that HE started) was with your dad, NOT you. My communication should be with your UNCLE, NOT  you, yet, HERE you are! Running your mouth like you’re some mob boss giving me or…

Like Father Like Daughter-Part 1

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GOOD GRIEF…I thought it was over, but just like a cockroach coming out of the woodwork…here come’s my ex’s niece, thinking she has something to say about my life. She was a gang member, doing a drive by this morning, dropping her incredibly long message, then blocking me. How cowardice of her. She was right about one thing…. I am posting her message, and multiple times if I feel like it. I guess she doesn’t like that, she says it makes me look “so stupid” but whatever. I guess she doesn’t know what blogs are for.  SO, let’s get started, shall we? It started this morning when I noticed I had missed a phone call from an “Unknown Caller” at 10:06 am. Then I got another one at 10:07 am. I guess someone really wanted to speak to me, but I NORMALLY, as a rule, don’t answer these kinds of phone calls. So, I didn’t think anything of it. Then I briefly saw notification that I have a Facebook message. Someone I am not friends with is wanting to reach me. I click to see who, and it’s my daughters…

I Can't Make This Stuff Up....

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It started, actually, Dec. 6, 2010. It was a Facebook post that my daughter's paternal Uncle Jerry, posted a picture of himself. Sometime between that date and August 26, 2011, when I responded to the post, Jerry and I had been Facebook friends. I am assuming he didn't realize or remember who I was exactly. So, having seen this picture he posted, on August 26, 2011, at 12:56 am, I wrote, "Jerry, you look like Anthony in this picture...." and that was it. (Anthony is my daughter's sperm donor.) That had BEEN it, until June 29, 2017 at 8:18 pm , YES, 6 years later, when he wrote, "This is like 1978." 6 years later, and seemingly innocent enough, right? I thought so too.

I thought so until someone either asked or just made a comment that I still can't believe. Someone, named Robert Jamie asked "Why would he look like Anthony, they aren't related" and prefaced this question/comment with an emoji that looked like similar to this :-/ only th…

Say Her Name.....

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It’s really been a nutty kind of last few days. I will start off with posting this, then I will write another blog, with the back story. THIS and THERE…. getting thoughts together, sharpening poison pen (a Family member told me I had one) Mama Wolf has been awakened, it’s been awhile. Got a lot to say, got some things to get off my chest… some things just can’t be BREATHED or WOOSAH’d away, until I deal with it, until the next time… so don’t tell me to drop it, let it go or whatever else, especially if you’ve never been in my situation or have had to deal with the SHIT I have. If you know me, you KNOW me. I am always nice, friendly and cordial, until I’m provoked, and it takes awhile to get there. Some things just don’t get a pass though…..”you’ve” been warned and it won’t be here on FB… yet

Follow the Paper Trail.....

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On Jan. 2, 2017, I wrote: “Dec 17th, ex must have mulled over our non confrontational conversation, and couldn’t handle it, so he shoots me off a text at 930am telling me, “Patty you tell my daughter to contact me anytime I don’t need to speak to you to see her. Patty in the past you never let me see Sarah so I will speak to her but I have nothing to say to you I rest my case.” He rests his case? I had to laugh because this is the most he’s spoken, even during all the times we had gone back and forth to court, “but he “rests his case…” OK “Our” daughter was born in 1993 and she turned 18 in 2011. Let me put this out there, here and now. I cannot EVER make another adult person do something they do not want to do. When I decided to leave my ex significant other, I will call him Anthony, it was the weekend of my birthday, March, 1994. “Our” daughter was 7 months old. We had been living together for nearly a year. I had discovered  and confirmed that he was cheating on me and had even moved …
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I hope everyone is well! I've been busy with work and school, both are ALMOST done for the summer, and it's always bittersweet for me. Summer is good for the peace of mind but definitely not the paycheck! I have no plans for summer, except to work at my second job (Respite Care), and possibly get another job. My kids are grown, young adults, both working, so I don't see them as much, but it's all good.  I am more of a Spring/Winter person, and don't particularly care for the Summer heat, but it's a necessary evil I have to deal with ;-) What plans do you have this summer?  

Excellent Read

What's Happening to Our Daughters, and WHY?

http://fightthenewdrug.org/sex-before-kissing-15-year-old-girls-dealing-with-boys/

Such a sad article from 2016. Girls today, young girls, girls in elementary school, don't even look their ages anymore. What happened to the days where parents bought age appropriate clothing for their daughters and didn't buy them such revealing clothing? It really saddens me how girls act these days, not all, but MANY act in ways that are years beyond their years.

Mess With The Bull, You'll Get The Horns...

On Dec 16th, 2016, I got a message from a fairly reliable source, ie: One who would know, that my ex was kicked out of his house, his family made him move out, and they sold the house because he had gotten into some trouble with the Law. This person asked me if I had heard anything or know about it. I said I hadn’t, so I sent my ex a text message, asking if he was ok and if he still lived at the last known address I had for him. I also called him a little while later and had a decent talk, he was fine all was well, he was about to eat pizza; just a cordial conversation. The next morning, Dec 17th, ex must have mulled over our non confrontational conversation, and couldn’t handle it, so he shoots me off a text at 930am telling me, ” Patty you tell my daughter to contact me anytime I don’t need to speak to you to see her. Patty in the past you never let me see Sarah so I will speak to her but I have nothing to say to you I rest my case.” Um, say WHAT!? Oh no, no, no…not so FAST…I didn’t l…