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Follow the Paper Trail.....

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On Jan. 2, 2017, I wrote: “Dec 17th, ex must have mulled over our non confrontational conversation, and couldn’t handle it, so he shoots me off a text at 930am telling me, “Patty you tell my daughter to contact me anytime I don’t need to speak to you to see her. Patty in the past you never let me see Sarah so I will speak to her but I have nothing to say to you I rest my case.” He rests his case? I had to laugh because this is the most he’s spoken, even during all the times we had gone back and forth to court, “but he “rests his case…” OK “Our” daughter was born in 1993 and she turned 18 in 2011. Let me put this out there, here and now. I cannot EVER make another adult person do something they do not want to do. When I decided to leave my ex significant other, I will call him Anthony, it was the weekend of my birthday, March, 1994. “Our” daughter was 7 months old. We had been living together for nearly a year. I had discovered  and confirmed that he was cheating on me and had even moved …
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I hope everyone is well! I've been busy with work and school, both are ALMOST done for the summer, and it's always bittersweet for me. Summer is good for the peace of mind but definitely not the paycheck! I have no plans for summer, except to work at my second job (Respite Care), and possibly get another job. My kids are grown, young adults, both working, so I don't see them as much, but it's all good.  I am more of a Spring/Winter person, and don't particularly care for the Summer heat, but it's a necessary evil I have to deal with ;-) What plans do you have this summer?  

Excellent Read

What's Happening to Our Daughters, and WHY?

http://fightthenewdrug.org/sex-before-kissing-15-year-old-girls-dealing-with-boys/

Such a sad article from 2016. Girls today, young girls, girls in elementary school, don't even look their ages anymore. What happened to the days where parents bought age appropriate clothing for their daughters and didn't buy them such revealing clothing? It really saddens me how girls act these days, not all, but MANY act in ways that are years beyond their years.

Mess With The Bull, You'll Get The Horns...

On Dec 16th, 2016, I got a message from a fairly reliable source, ie: One who would know, that my ex was kicked out of his house, his family made him move out, and they sold the house because he had gotten into some trouble with the Law. This person asked me if I had heard anything or know about it. I said I hadn’t, so I sent my ex a text message, asking if he was ok and if he still lived at the last known address I had for him. I also called him a little while later and had a decent talk, he was fine all was well, he was about to eat pizza; just a cordial conversation. The next morning, Dec 17th, ex must have mulled over our non confrontational conversation, and couldn’t handle it, so he shoots me off a text at 930am telling me, ” Patty you tell my daughter to contact me anytime I don’t need to speak to you to see her. Patty in the past you never let me see Sarah so I will speak to her but I have nothing to say to you I rest my case.” Um, say WHAT!? Oh no, no, no…not so FAST…I didn’t l…