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Uncovered Medical Expenses

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Dec. 1995 court orders state that my husband was to pay one half of all uncovered medical expenses. He had no problem doing that, when he KNEW what it was that he owed. The trouble he ran into was that his ex would not forward copies of the EOB's from her (or her husbands) insurance co, showing their share, whether they paid the rest of the claim or applied it to the deductible. His ex ALWAYS bitched about how he is not paying his share, and he would respond by saying that he can't pay what he doesn't know the amount is. For some reason, the ex believed that he owed half of what HIS insurance didn't pay. UM...NO, that's not the way the law is written.

ON Feb 27th, 2005, he finally sent an email to his ex telling her that he has not recieved all of or any of the eob's for the calendar years, 2001, 2002, 2003 and 2004 for the kids. He said that because of this, he has been unable to pay his portion of any uncovered expenses.

In the beginning, she would send coie…

My response...

Jan 9, 2004

Dear Anthony "Tony" J R,

Colleen R's letter to me dated 1-7-04

I am writing this letter so that YOU can get a few things straight.

YOU and I, Anthony, had a child together, NOT Colleen and I, so my "legal business" is with YOU, not Colleen. YOU are court ordered to carry medical insurance on Sarah M R. If I were to quit using one of the two insurance's that Sarah is presently covered unver, I would quit using my husband's plan.

YOU do NOT pay $700 a month in medical insurance. A letter from your employer, dated in 1998, with confirmation as early as TODAY, BOTH state that your employer pays 100% of the premium. There is no cost to your for the health insurance that you carry on Sarah and yourself. Remember, when you tried to make this same claim in 2002, NO ONE believed you. Remember, the DA's officer we met with at the court house called your employer to verify your information, and at that time as well, your employer said there is no co…

Nosey Nellie...

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OH for CRYING out LOUD.... and yet, another letter from Coleen...





***** UPDATE*****

While it may have taken nearly 9.5 yrs, I LOVE IT when the truth comes out. As I suspected and new, this little girl is NOT my ex's daughter, as his wife at the time wrote she was :-) This post came from Sunday, June 23, 2013:


8 years long....

I wrote Anthony a letter regarding insurance and uncovered medical expenses. I told him there was no reason he should have a balance of uncovered medical expenses, after 8 yrs. I let him know that the child support he pays goes to my daughter's living expenses, food, clothing, shelter, and that carrying her at no cost to him,  to pay his share of uncovered medical expenses, as the court ordered, was on TOP of the child support he is ordered to pay.

I explained to him that my daughter has dual coverage, as she was also covered under my husbands plans, and that the out of pockets expenses are cut drastically, especially where Dental expenses are concerned.

I gave him until Feb 8th, 2004, 36 days, to become current on his share of uncovered medical expenses, and that if he failed to do so, I would be bring this issue before a judge and request a wage garnishment. I would also be requesting reimbursement for court costs and filing fees, because it is BECAUSE of him that I had to make …