The beginning of "Legal Action"

After finding out that my husband was not listed as Father in his kids medical, dental, school or child care files, his ex wife fires off this letter, dated 1-12-96, not addressed to anyone in particular, pretty stupid actually, and I do believe this was the first "threat" of her taking legal action, where I am concerned.

Throughout the years, it became a CONSTANT threat, one that she never ever pursued, guess she realized she REALLY had no leg to stand on.

Yes, you ARE THE MOTHER of those two kids, and you have physical custody of them. ALL that means is

definition of sole physical custody:

the order for custody where one parent has primary responsibility for the day-to-day care and supervision of the children. 

but you share JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY of the kids with my husband. What THAT means is 

Legal Custody

Legal custody of a child means having the right and the obligation to make decisions about a child's upbringing. A parent with legal custody can make decisions about schooling, religion, and medical care, for example. In many states, courts regularly award joint legal custody, which means that the decision making is shared by both parents.
If you share joint legal custody with the other parent and you exclude him or her from the decision-making process, your ex can take you back to court and ask the judge to enforce the custody agreement. You won't get fined or go to jail, but it will probably be embarrassing and cause more friction between the two of you -- which may harm the children. What's more, if you're represented by an attorney, it's sure to be expensive.

AND for the record, you DID exclude my husband from the decision making process 99% of the time.

Your little letter there, had no purpose or value to it. It was a WASTE of your time. NO ONE would jeopardize their jobs to give me information, you must think everyone is as stupid as you think they are. 
We laughed at this letter. It was funny...


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