I ran out of the court room and hugged my daughter and cried!! July 31, 1995, a day away from being 2, I know she had no idea what was going on, but on THIS DAY...Anthony defaulted, and the court ordered, adjudged and decreed that I was the mother of Anthony's child. I was awarded sole legal sole physical custody of Sarah, and Anthony was NOT to have any rights of visitation. Anthony was to pay one half of uncovered medical, dental, orthodontic, psychological or psychiatric costs incurred on behalf of the minor child. I had received maternity benefits, then welfare for about 10 months.